Reaching your mid-30’s, you think about all the successes and failures from your 20’s. What seemed a roller coaster ride filled with uncertainty is now a recent memory with an obvious path. When my younger brother graduated high school, I gave him some life advice from my own experience. To be honest, I don’t remember what it was, but I don’t think it was very clear in my own mind yet, nor actionable for him.
Now with younger cousins graduating high school, I have a much clearer recommendation that would have answered, for me at least, the age-old question of…
“What do I want to be when I grow up?”
Like most, I couldn’t afford college without taking on debt from day one, and my parents had no financial ability to help. Sure, I would have worked a part-time job, but it wouldn’t have come anywhere near close to covering tuition after paying to live a bare-bones “lifestyle”. And since I didn’t know what I wanted to do, spending $60k or more on a 4-yr degree had an unknown ROI.
Instead… I spent ~6 years, with a young family, working near the poverty line in call centers and odd-n-end jobs before eventually becoming low-to-middle class. In what became a career path you couldn’t have made up, I started at a machine shop part-time that my buddy worked at, then moved to a full-time calibration job another friend was at (even working months worth of extra hours in overtime, we still did not surpass a $40k income; I even slept in my car one night because I worked a 16 hr day followed by a 14), then I interviewed and landed another calibration job making ~40% more (~$42k/yr thanks to learning everything I could at the previous job for 3 years), and have now moved internally in that company switching to improving business systems and processes. While at this company, I completed my Bachelors with them paying for most of it. I need another bump or two in title and several big bumps in pay to get where I need to be, but I’m so blessed just to be where I am at given my starting point.
So, what am I encouraging my own flesh-and-blood high school graduates to do?
Unless you have the financial means and interest to attend college right off the bat for an engineering, medical, business, etc degree that has a real Return on Investment (ROI)…
Find a Trade or associate-level Profession that has a decent barrier to entry, takes two years or less to get started, pays decent during summer internships or on-the-job training, and has a higher pay in years 2-5+.
In the medical world, this could be a Tech (radiology, ultrasound/sonographer, etc), a RN, a Dental Hygienist, or even a EMT/Paramedic + FireFighter. As long as you keep your certifications/licenses current, often you can even jump in and out of the workforce, or work part-time, depending on other family or life responsibilities.
For Trades/Apprenticeships… electrician, HVAC, machine operator, etc + even the legal and financial occupations.
Sales… As a 18-22 yr old, an inconsistent income doesn’t hurt like it does when you have a family and mortgage. Couch surf if you have to, but Real Estate, among others, requires just a few years of learning the ropes, getting certifications, working under a Realtor, etc before you start making good money. Do it while you’re young, energetic, and have nothing to lose.
Here’s Why… A barrier-to-entry means not everyone can apply to the current job postings and the pay will be higher. 1-2 years of training means you will have marketable and transferable skills, even before your first job. And, the training will often introduce you to paid internships or first jobs. Don’t worry that this isn’t your dream job or not what you want to do in your 40’s. It may open your eyes to a career you hadn’t thought about, give you hands-on experience for a future job, or just be a source of interesting small talk when you’re older. Today, employers and society are all but expecting you to have several careers during your life and many in the workforce change jobs every 2-3 years. Regardless, this starter career will finance the training for your “real” career!
After 3-5 years when you are making a decent middle class wage, and have a better idea of what you’ll see as meaningful work, fund your “next” career. Still work at your current job, but attend college or additional classes. Some examples… An electrician but want more, get an Electrical Engineering degree (or work-to-own the company you are currently employed at from the aging owner). A RN and like it, go for a BSN then a specialty to make six figures. Or switch completely, but use the current income to fund the training and then even be a part-time extra job going forward. A FireFighter/Paramedic can be a Real Estate agent or electrician too. A Dental Hygienist will often work only 3-4 days a week, during the day, so the off days, evenings, and weekends are free for other endeavors.
Save and invest 25% of that income + train for your next “real” career with College and/or more industry training and certifications
You’re young and being cheap is ok. At this point, $10 is a lot of money and can even be two whole meals from Taco Bell or McDonald’s. $100 means you can buy just about anything you want, or only have to save for a few months maximum. Having a thousand dollars in your bank account basically means you are rich! KEEP THAT MINDSET. Treat yourself to a little bit, but do not increase your lifestyle dramatically. Save a ton and invest now in a passive S&P 500 or Total Stock Market index fund. Work and study 60+ hours a week; you have the energy and them some. By 25 yrs old, you will have made $150k+ combined, have almost $50k in savings/invested, and be ready for your next career.
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Don’t let lifestyle inflation get you until you are in your 30’s with a Net Worth of $500k, with much of that invested.
If I would have done this, we would be 5 or more years further ahead of where we are now…